The Challenge of Saint Valentine
Something that harbans ji said, started me thinking
The only Purva Paksha for Hindutva then that people see is angry, loud, frothing, frustrated, name calling folk many who praise Hitler, whip couples, smash KFC's and assorted goonish behavior on and off the net.
Published on Feb 13, 2013
Mangalore: Bajrang Dal to oppose Valentine’s Day celebration: Daiji World
Mangalore, Feb 13: Bajrang Dal has announced that it will oppose activities connected with Valentine’s Day, which has been dedicated to lovers. Valentine’s Day is annually held on February 14.
In a statement, Bajrang Dal said that in the name of Valentine’s Day and love, obscene and immoral activities are undertaken. These in turn, are playing havoc with the cultural values cherished by the country since times immemorial, it said.
The organization has urged the district administration not to permit holding of DJ, pubs, or dances connected with Valentine’s Day. It also has urged the administration to initiate action against people who are found to be behaving indecently in public places including parks.
It also said that the district administration will be solely responsible for unsavoury incidents if any, which may occur on account of the administration’s failure to initiate action on the above lines.
The burden has always been greater on the Hindu. That is the way the INC has set up the theater of politics in India. So even as we take others to task for doing adharma, the Hindus too would need to adopt some changes in our conduct which allows the Nehruvian-Secularists (aka the Islamo-Christianist Platform) and their other friends (Cultural Marxists, Yuppies, Macaulayists, etc) to give the Hindutvavadis a bad name by twisting or suppressing the true intent of Hindutvavadis for some action and using a superficial interpretation of the acts and exaggerating them to tarnish and demonize Hindutvavadis, e.g. in this case for "whipping couples".
Be as it is, the propaganda of the Nehruvian-Secularists (aka the Islamo-Christianist Platform) is quite effective especially as they and their allies "own" the mainstream media in India, and the Hindutvavadis, in this case Bajrang Dal, need to rise above this trap, in which they willingly walk in and allow the Nehruvian-Secularists to get propaganda mileage out of it.
Conundrum
Every time one stops somebody from expressing their love for the other, one is automatically the villain. In fact that is the major theme if not the only theme of Indian films. There is no escape from this dynamic regardless of how many explanations one gives. In fact Romantic Love forms the central theme in the Dharmic traditions, by far more strongly than in Islam or Christianity.
Solution
The reason Valentine's Day has picked up popularity is simply because young (and old) people want some day where they can focus on romantic love they share with someone or wish to share with someone.
Kāma, is in fact such an important aspect of life that it is held as one of the
Puruṣārthas at the same level as
Dharma,
Artha and
Mokṣa.
Any civilization which does not want another to encroach upon its territory, which is the main consideration and driver behind Bajrang Dal's resistance to Valentine's Day,
must own the narrative over Kāma fully.
There are many areas where other civilizations may have developed an advantage over the Bharatiya Sabhyata but Love is not a field where Bharat needs to bow down to others. Bharatiya Civilization is the focal point on earth where the carnal sex of Barbarian transforms into
maithuna of the Arya. And this is a crown we should never abdicate.
So instead of "beating couples" what we can do finish off Valentine's Day in India by offering a civilizational response.
The Real Festival of Romantic Love
Yes, the Hindus should instead of stopping Valentine's Day, simply hold a rival 2-day Indian festival on Feb 11 & 12 - the Kama-Rati Mahotsava.
Let the God of Love and Goddess of Love help us out here!
So instead of fighting Valentine's Day, the Bajrang Dal could instead help rejuvenate this ancient festival. They could decorate their neighborhoods, they can offer couples flowers on the streets on this day, they can organize Kama-Leela plays in the community - which can be about various love stories known in India.
Valentine's Day has of course its icons today - the chocolate box, roses, hearts, dining out, cocktails, some bash.
So what can be some of the icons for Kāma-Rati Mahotsav?
- On Feb 11, it is the Kāma day. All guys wear parrot green fashion clothes - perhaps just a parrot-green Angavastram or something more elaborate. The parrot is Kāmadeva's vaahan. The ladies should preferably wear fashion with black as the base color. Women can make creative designs on their faces, similar to mehndi designs but more temporary. Some Tota-Maina narrative. On this day it is the men who give their ladies the feeling that they are goddesses. Nothing wrong even with chocolate boxes - but the chocolate boxes can have very imaginative packaging and designs. Roses too can par for the course, but one can introduce a different flower variety as well. Also on this day, all families where love flourishes can put out parrot-green flags from their windows and balconies. The streets too should be draped parrot green. No maithuna on this day! But the couples can go out and enjoy their evenings as they please - dining, cinema, dance clubs, theaters, etc.
- On Feb 12, it is the Rati day. On these 2 days, the grandparents take over the children, and every married couple should get a day for the full maithuna. Every woman and girl gets a mehndi treatment for their bodies - at least the feet and hands. And in the evening one lets Tantric love trance take over. BTW these 2 days are half-work days. Also each market should fund at least a two meter high statue of Kāmadeva & Rati in some sensual pose for the marketplace as soon as the Republic Day Celebrations are over. One would also need someone on guard-duty, something perhaps what Bajrang-Dal can take over.
- On Feb 13, people can go late to work.
- On Feb 14, what was on Feb 14, forgotten!
- A month later is Holi!
Now why am I putting something so idiotic on this thread. Well that is the Bharatiya Proposition. India has to be not the "Religion of Love" but the "Civilization of Love". If something like this succeeds in India, rest assured it would make people forget Valentine's Day not just in India, but the world over!
Also it would make many people in other communities long to be less green - more like parrot green!
Sexual freedom is often a sign of confidence of a people and not just a sign of decadence. So it is important for Hindus to be able to channelize this desire for sexual freedom in a way which strengthens people's allegiance to the Hindu Samaj rather than destroys it.
Disclaimer: I went into the details because I wanted to enable others to visualize better what I mean.
Yes and let's not forget the Tota - the symbol of
Kāma-Rati Mahotsav!
