On issues of foreign policy, like dems and reps in US, all parties in India must unite, even if a particular party may derive mileage at a given point in time.
Err. Kashmir is not
foreign policy! It comes very much under the Ministry of Home Affairs! Where there will be total unity and should be had is in EXTERNAL interference in Kashmir. How we deal and handle Indian citizens in Kashmir is a matter of debate and detail and normal political process, and yes that includes those who are opposed to Indian rule as well. It cannot be any other way.
In taking on the Kashmiri Muslim sepratist dogs and their followers, every party in India must be unite
This is precisely the problem with the march that was foiled and the uber nationalist types. Kashmir Muslims are NOT foreigners even if they happen to be "separatist dogs" and cannot be treated as you would treat a citizen of say Pakistan /US/UK/ whatever.
Our service chiefs rightly pointed that out when the clamor was to use the full might of the Indian armed forces (including choppers and artillery and what not) against the Maoists! That kind of force is reserved for use in a foreign territory and foreign country under conditions of war. Not against your own citizens (even putative) . Even in the worst days of militancy in the valley we didn't use that kind of force. That is exactly what separates us from Pakiland (air attacks to get rid of Bugti), Syrian, Iraq and other totalitarian states without a democratic polity. That is the fundamental lesson we have to learn from the Golden Temple /Op Bluestar experience.
So please, stop treating all Kashmiri muslims ,including the separatists as "foreigners" . The record of the Indian state against insurgencies and insurrections has been commendable. We were able to douse it in the N.E, including very intractable ones (the latest one on it's way out is in Assam from the look of it) and also in Punjab.
Yes, there is a time when the guns are talking, the response has to be with the gun.But when the guns are silent, it is time to talk .. Assam, Nagaland, Manipur etc. etc. etc. That is the way to lasting peace. The guns have been silent in Kashmir now for a while. So let us talk and talk in good faith and give it time.
Theo has the right idea. Get the railway links in, get the people int the valley mobile, let them move about. You are talking about a historically geographically isolated and repressed population, that has all the signs of an isolated group , fearful of the wider world and modernity and the changes and everything, that went through rapid social changes, the works and fundamentally fearful of it's identity and place in the larger scheme of things.
Growing up as a child I had never met an Assamese in Banglore (the first person I saw from the N.E was at the Madrassa, someone from Tripura)!. This time, there was a fine arts festival in the apt complex I live in , there were performances from all over the country and there is a family from Assam and the lady of the family got together a couple of her neighbors ( A Kannadiga, Marathi, Tamil) and she put together a smashing Bihu dance, the first time I saw one performed to traditional Assamese music!
The only ethnic Kashmiris I see integrated like that are the Kashmiri Pandits (a couple of them in my 'hood) . Get the KMs in as well and let them see and experience for themselves what this country is all about (and I dont mean the KM political /other elite, but ordinary mango/middle class KM) and talk, this thing will resolve itself, despite the damnest the Pakis try doing (in anycase, I wouldn't worry about them. They are in a death spiral and in all probability look like getting their 72s within a decade or two at most and there will be no Pakiland for the Gilani Stiffs to be hosting the Paki flag anywhere

!).