Rony wrote:So in order to jolt India's apathetic govt, one needs to self flagellate and whine before the gora. Isn't it what Aroy does ?
Au contraire, ARoy does not attempt to jolt India's govt, she writes rubbish and cooked up facts and is a plain and simple anarchist. Theres a difference.
Karan M wrote:What I am implying is fairly straightforward, that given the language he used he would not be allowed to carry that article in an equally mainstream paper here.
That is factually incorrect.Be it as it may, i don't see the logic of cursing Indian govt "with the language he uses" in a non-Indian newspaper because mainstream Indian paper does not carry it.
How is that factually incorrect? Please provide me the facts - namely, tell me when you manage to get a mainstream Indian newspaper to write about MMS being senile or implying that he is, and also taking potshots at SG/RG.
I fear that you have little to no idea about how widespread self censorship is in the Indian media. Books don't get published if you take a stand critical of current policies
Next, you may not see the logic, but I do and he did. What makes your opinion more accurate than his or mine?
Karan M wrote:What is the point of whining anywhere, as you put it? Would you rather he waved the flag, bared his chest and throatily expressed his patriotism instead, which you would be the judge of, given your comments on what is kosher and what is not? And you may not see a difference, but others do. And therein lies the point. The world is bigger than you, there are many other Indians apart from you, and they will do what they think is within the bounds of civility. What you are doing is classic projection. You have arbitrarily decided what is good and what is not, and are hence complaining about anyone who does not think as you do even when they pen their thoughts. Should they have sought your permission?
All this and i still did not get answer to my basic question on what is the point of self flagellating and whining in a American newspaper about Indian problems.
You got the answer, you choose not to see it. You asked a rhetorical question "What is the point of.." and got an answer pointing out that the point lies in the eye of the beholder. He wanted to write, so he did.
What makes you the judge and jury on deciding he doesn't have a point but you do?
Karan M wrote:Which attitude makes little sense, and is entirely driven by your thoughts about what is right or wrong. Like it or not, you don't define India.
No one said i define India.
But you are acting as you do. You are being self righteous, judgemental and stating that people should NOT do x, they should NOT do y. They should ONLY do z. If you don't define India, then how is it that your opinion is to be taken as fact?
Karan M wrote:His choice to make. He is describing his life, his personal choices and how he perceives things. Why should it bother you?
What BS. In the same vein, i am putting out my opinion on him and his attitude to self flagellate and whine in front of goras.Why should it bother you ?
Sorry, but his opinion and his desire to merely express is opinion is BS. But on the other hand, you attacking him for doing so is not BS?
Lets see, you have don't really care about changing the actual situation that made this guy vent, but all that bothers you is your perception about goras views of what he wrote, and how desis should not even dare to talk anything about India in front of goras. And you claim you don't define India, yet are sitting in judgement of exactly how a fellow Indian should behave. Care to see the multiple strands of illogic implicit in your argument?
This when you are not part of the solution, don't have a constructive critique and are complaining about how some Indian dares to express his personal life (didn't describe you anywhere did he, so why bother?) in a foreign newspaper.
Why this insecurity my friend? Why this bother about what goras think, that too about an arbit, random piece? If you were truly so confident about India (and you are and and you should be), you wouldn't and shouldn't give a darn about what he wrote when its so marginal. Or, if you felt what he wrote was wrong, you would point out exactly what.
No - you have done neither, instead you are sitting and whining about how somebody else was whining. And in the process you dub other Indians as disgusting for having this habit apparently.. its just plain circular, is what it is..
Karan M wrote:And next, you say I can count on my fingers the number of mainland chinese who self flagellate in the opinion pages of NY times like some Indians do - so only some Chinese self flagellate, and only some Indians do so. That's what you wrote. In other words the claim that this is a uniquely disgusting Indian trait is misplaced.
"Some Indians do" as in not all but significant some . "Can count on my fingers" as in less than ten. You can crib on how i write but i hope you understand what i am trying to say. "Some" Indians have this disgusting habit to self flagellate and whine about negative things about India in front of goras and i don't see this that often from chinese.
If you don't see this often from Chinese, then all I can say is you haven't met enough Chinese who are not from mainland China. They crib like blazes and continue to crib. Its a fact about many democratic societies. What I was referring to were many expat Chinese also including those from the mainland, who go for education abroad, return and then find how bad the situation is and openly discuss it.
As matter of fact, its a good thing that more Indians are able to talk what they wish, because that means the power of the state to forcefully suppress opinion is declining, and they will be judged on positive outcomes not airy fairy talk, misusing our patriotism for their own ends.
As matter of fact, I think its a good thing that we can speak our mind (gora be in front or back or wherever, be darned). In fact, I did meet a gora sometime back who noted he felt stifled in China, because he could neither speak his mind nor talk shop about local conditions, given how the mainland suppresses frank talk. In contrast, he likes India and has even hired an Indian for one of the most senior roles.
Net, not all goras are out to attack India and nor is free speech necessarily evil. Its all about intent. In this case, I see nothing from this author that he has any malicious intent towards India.
Yet, his opinion about his own personal life, about his social milieu, about what he perceives from his point of view, grates on you. Even though you don't belong to or own or are responsible for any of the issues he describes.
Plus you are applying some sort of blanket rule about goras, gora media, india, indian media and so forth, which neither makes sense and nor is it enforceable. All you will do is make all sane Indian nationalists look bad and as speech suppressing fanatics, when that's hardly what you'd wish to portray.
Karan M wrote:What rubbish is this? So a "vides"i can call Indian issues out in "videsi" papers, but an Indian must never ever call anything out in a videsi paper. If this is not a weird form of racism, what else is?
Did you even read what i wrote. A gora pontificating in a Indian newspaper about Indias problems is different from a desi whining and self flagellating about India's problems in a NYT/BBC etc. In the first case, we need to reverse the gaze and show the gora a mirror.In the second case, there is no pointing in supporting such self flagellation .This stand of mine appears as racism to you ? lol
I did read what you wrote and yes, it is pretty weird. An Indian cannot write in papers abroad, but a gora can. Oh wait, the Indian can write only if he writes about India in a positive light. But the gora can write bad things about India that's fine. Meanwhile, all this is part of some plan wherein the Indians can show the gora a mirror and second, will show a stiff upper lip and never admit to anything bad.
Do you even understand how pointless and implausible your method is?? So Indians will magically be allowed to write in papers abroad - and ONLY if they write positive stuff. And if they don't do this, guess who writes? The gora. So you want goras to crap all over us.. whereas Indians lose the opportunity to present a more nuanced view of India, good and bad included, which would have meant they retained credibility.
Yes, you are being pretty racist here because you have divided the world into "us" versus "them" and automatically ascribe roles to both sides. Goras versus us, and on top of it, you are shackling Indian arms by insisting that only some kinds of writing should be allowed abroad, the rest won't be. Few if any sane authors or fellow Indians are going to accept your restrictions my friend, like it or not.
Instead, you should be insisting that more Indians write in papers abroad, and write positive news NOT only negative news. Journalism by its very basis, will include both "+" and "-". The aim should be to have as much "+" as possible, but the negative will still be there. Saying show them a mirror, show them this, all sounds well and jingoistic, but in reality, it will backfire and just show us to be insecure dolts.
The US has amongst the highest rates of crime in the world. It has drug issues. It is hated by many for its military policies. Yet the world flocks to its shores. Food for thought.