ldev ji, so you can't respect me ?

I'm quite OK with that.
my job is to run BR smoothly along with other mods. if people respect me, that is fine. if they don't respect me that too is fine, I expected from day 1 that I'm not going to win any popularity contest.
oh and btw, I do stand by my "Insinuations, incorrect characterizations, defensive and agressive phrases", as you call it. you might think that trying to drive a wedge through the mod team is a very sophisticated method to isolate the one mod who spoke out against your 'method', on the contrary, such tactics are quite transparent to most. FYI, my opinion on your posting trends is fully shared by a number of the mod team, though I may have been the only one to speak my mind.
Display some command of anything besides aggression and throwing your weight around as a moderator and getting into flame wars with posters.
accusing mods of misuse of power, this and that is nothing new, most members display similar behaviour when they are called out by mods for foul-play. we get that all the time.
calling them worthless (as you did in a rather long-winded fashion !) is also a commonplace if a rather lame attempt to get back at a disciplining mod.
to wrap up, I will make just one observation, many of the people you mention as ideal genuinely believe that throwing out a disturbing element is the best way to ensure peace and tranquility on BR. it is precisely because I do NOT throw my weight around that we are still having this conversation here. in case this happened with most other mods, your user ID would already have been history by now !
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J-gun saar, can this please be taken offline? This does not reflect well on us, and this is not feedback anymore.
People should agree to disagree, but I see the good Dr.'s point in action right here.
PS: Don't pounce on the messenger. We would like to avoid another unsavory episode.
marten sahab, don't worry. pushing things under the carpet is not BR's way of doing things.
BR mods understand that they will be unpopular in certain quarters, namely those who are not an asset to this forum and are therefore treated accordingly. believe me, they couldn't care less. and no, this does not harm the forum's reputation in any way.
these exchanges, while rather tiring, are not a complete waste of time. some people indulge in shoot and scoot tactics under the guise of 'honest feedback' during states of flux (this is decidedly not the first time) which tends to mislead impressionable readers. they choose the timing well enough so that most mods are busy with other things which allows them to sneak under the radar.
Now, what they say may be inconsequential by itself but BR can't allow such baseless allegations and attempts at 'remote controlling' to stand time and time again. otherwise they become the 'truth' over time, if repeated often enough, if you know what I mean.
there are two ways to stop this, either to debate the points and expose the claims (this process is nearing its end at the moment) or to ban the user outright for making unsubstantiated insinuations. I think the first way is a better way to convince the handful of readers of this forum who chose to believe the allegations.